When is the RSVP deadline?

The RSVP deadline is April 1st, 2025. Please RSVP on this website.

Are children welcome?

We love all our nieces and nephews dearly! They are all welcome and we're so honored to have them see Auntie and Uncle on our big day. Please be sure to order children's dinner options as necessary.

Do you have a wedding hotel block?

Yes, we have a hotel block at the Halepuna in Waikiki. Please be sure to book under the booking link on the Travel & Stay page to receive discounted rates.

Does your wedding have a theme?

We do not! It is not required to follow any wedding or color theme, we invite you to dress in any formal attire as you wish.

Can I bring a date?

Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.

Will there be any special diet options for dinner?

Please list any dietary restrictions on your RSVP that you submit on the RSVP form on this website.

Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

The ceremony will be at Sacred Heart Church in Waikiki and the reception will be at Lanikuhonua Phase I in Kapolei. These two venues are 25 miles apart and we will be providing transportation only for guests staying at the Halepuna Hotel in Waikiki.

Will transportation be provided?

Yes, we will have transportation provided for the day of the wedding only for guests staying at the Halepuna in Waikiki. Please detail in the notes section on the RSVP if you are staying at the Halepuna and need transportation. This is not mandatory and all guests are welcome to drive. We do need to confirm a headcount for transportation needed so please specify sooner than later.

Will the ceremony & reception be indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony will be held indoors at Church and reception will be held outdoors.

What time should I arrive?

We recommend that you arrive 30-45 minutes before the start of the ceremony, to make sure everyone is on time and we can get the ceremony started as scheduled.

Will the venue have parking?

Yes, both ceremony and reception sites will have parking lots to accommodate any guests who are driving.

What happens after the ceremony?

The church ceremony starts at 1:30 PM and ends at 2:30 PM. After the ceremony, the wedding party will be taking pictures nearby. There will be a pause in between events, and guests are welcome to relax or explore the area. If you are staying at the Halepuna and need transportation, we will be sending out more details on what time transportation will arrive once we confirm headcount. Cocktail hour begins at 4:30 PM with hors d’oeuvres and cocktails. Following cocktail hour is the reception where the real party starts!

What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

We kindly request formal attire to complement the elegance of our Hawaiian wedding. For Women: Long evening gowns or elegant cocktail dresses. Dressy sandals or heels; wedges are great for grass where our reception will be held. There will be no sandy areas. Hawaii’s weather can be warm, so light and breathable fabrics are best like chiffon or silk for comfort. For Men: Suits or dress pants with a collared shirt (tie optional). Lightweight fabrics like linen or cotton. Dress shoes or polished loafers (no sandals, please). Feel free to add a touch of tropical flair! We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

What should I do if I can't make it?

You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “no,” on your invitation so we can plan accordingly.

Contact Information

For any urgent questions please email elisaandperris@gmail.com or text either Perris or Elisa.